yes, that is very true, some woman will be very lucky. idk, i would like to wait until i get married but most of my friends from high are either married or engaged and im starting to think that i will never get married..

Having sex is a personal choice, promising to god to wait is just wrong in my opinion. Was 18 my self when the right girl came along.

I gave my virginity at 25 and I don't regret it at all. I am happy with those who wait for the person they want. No one wants to feel like crap after having sex. Christianity does not show a healthy view on personal choices or offer proper options to having sex. Sex is the ultimate fun thing to do and it is why so many people do it. True love does wait, however true love also teaches and does not cover up the issue. I tried to wait till I got married, but no go.

Which is exactly why I made the video 'Non-Virginity: Virginity Part 3'

i think it is important to not just give in and have sex because other people are, but i think there's been way too much emphasis put on virginity and waiting now as a result.people feel like they have to choose between the two instead of just thinking for themselves - they should just do what they feel is right, make some sort of rules for themselves if they feel it's necessary and don't if you don't!

i think that if you have sex with that person..he/she was your mr. right at that moment.....if you decided to have sex then you were prob in love at that moment....if you fall out of love with tht person then at least you know that you loved them enought to share that part of you with them

Thanks, kind of needed that boost. I'm an ultra-mega virgin, (and proud of it.)

brother i now how u feel man.

i havent had many sexual experiences, but all of them so far havent been as great as people talk about. i might take a page out of the Morrissey book and just be celibate.

I thoughtlessly left out you other viewers; you guys might enjoy it too.If nothing else, I guarantee it will make you look at Justin Timberlake's "Dick in a Box" song differently :)-J

Look, Kicesie, I personally think you have a lot of growing up to do yourself, but you mentioned wanting to write a book about virginity and you reminded me on one I read last year. I found it at my library last year, it's short, but I thought it framed the issue you're interested in well, and proved thought-provoking for an amateur like myself.Best of luck in your endeavors,JillVirginity Lost : An Intimate Portrait of First Sexual ExperiencesCarpenter, Laura M. (Author)

Well said!

I'm 21 and have no experience with women when it comes to dating or intimacy, i try to bury myself in my studies, work and personal development so it won't bother me as much but it's pretty hard to ignore at times especially during big events and holidays or even as close as your very own circle of friends. I tried multiple times a few years back to put myself out there and ,unlike my peers, success was low as no one was ever interested. Now I lost all interest and don't even bother.

of course.. humping around like a horny rabbit obviously isn't the most respectful lifestyle... but lifestyle is what you can choose for yourself. as long as your honest about it, I don't see a problem.Sex is an important part of a relationship. It just isn't everything. If you want to sacrifice a good relationship because you weren't the first, it's your decision. I just think you might loose more than you win.

My assumption was based on someone who had no discretion on who they wanted to have sex. Your points don't work with that.

I think that there are two fundamental mistakes in your asumption. 1. you asume, that there is only one, and exactly one mr. right for every mrs. right. 2. what is, when you wait. fall in love. loose your virginity and find out that he wasn't mr. right later? then you find your real mr. right and he blames you for not having waited for him? is that fair?I think people put to much meaning into virginity. it's kind of a sexist demand, as guy can never be proven dishonest while girls can..

I understand what you're saying even though I don't agree... It's not about owning... it's about... let's say one partner decided to wait and the other had no standards and shared their bodies with any/every one. Then they come to the same place in life and meet each other, fall in love, etc... Emotional baggage is real. And for the person who waited, sex can feel cheapened and/or their decision to wait for someone special feels meaningless now, etc.My only point is that I see both sides.

couldn't have put it any better!!!

actually I think it is wrong.You can't blame someone for having a relationship before you even met him. Cheating, something totally different, but as long as you haven't met mr. or mrs. right, how should you be able to know what he or she wants? Not to mention that it is kind of wrong to think that you can actually own someone... it's a relationship, not slavery....

just relax, work on your shyness by just talking to people. If someone laughs, laugh with them and don't pull back into your shell and things will work out.not having been kissed, doesn't make you awkward. Hunting after stupid ideas about what someone has to have done at certain ages actually does.Don't ask yourself what others expect you to be like. Be yourself and surround yourself with people that like the real you.