It takes a little practice and curiosity on your end, and trust and patience on the other. Trust me, you'll get better- just pace yourself. If you discover that you just don't enjoy giving your guy oral, then don't, he should be fine with that.

i like when he is fingering me with is finger like a hook tickling the front side of the vagina and licking my clit at the same time it is amaziing

honestly i think the biggest thing about oral sex is its called sucking dick for a reason! theres a HUGE difference between sucking and licking, good oral sex is a guy getting lucky, GREAT oral sex is a girl who knows the differencethis barely scratches the surface on the whole topic, but it still makes all the difference

I have a question, it'd be cool if some girl replied. Anyways, I can get my girlfriend to orgasm pretty quickly with oral, and with a bullet it's pretty quick also. The question is, are those like, soft orgasms? Is there a way to really make it go. It looks like it's pretty nice, back arching and disorientation afterwards, but it just seems too easy to be true. I guess how do you know if it's really an awesome orgasm?

Read "The low down on going down, how to give her mind-blowing oral sex." This book and the subsequent practice taught me how to go from giving good to un-freakin beleviable oral sex. I suggest it to all my guy friends.

Actually they have proven that you cant without getting surgery and removing one or two ribs.

I tongue fuck till i get tired then i put my tongue over her clit and just stick it out firm then i shake my head back and forth quickly. This gives your tounge time to relax as you are now just using your neck muscles and it keeps her at the same point of excitation until you can return. I have used this step ladder( varied with other things to keep it interesting ) approach to get my gf to orgasm countless times. :D good luck.

my GF likes a bit of for play but not to much or she will get frustrated, not forgetting neck nipple belly thigh sometimes she like me to alot of teeth or not so much i think get to know your partners reactions, for eg my gf grabs the back of my head when she wants it harder and listen to them i find it beter when you stop just as they cum but some i girls i have been with like to keep going dont be afraid to get in there it dosent hurt and you can always have a shower after.

aw, that's sweet :'(

for me to have a great time sexualy i need a man to be into foreplay and to having oral sex. its about pleasuring both not one partner. i love it when a guy starts with kisses on my body and the working down to my virgina, i love the tongue penitration and the fingers. it makes me feel hot just thinking about it. bring it on

yknow, there's probably only once that I've actually orgasmed from oral.. it was a while ago but I think it was because he just kept at it for so long. if my b/f knew exactly what I wanted, it probably could happen. I love it when he's under the blankets. Every guy I've been with has made one crucial mistake: going too fast/hard too soon, probably just trying to get it over with. You gotta like it, otherwise don't bother....

Hey mitchshun, dont give up after one bad experience. Sounds like with the blowjob you tried to do too much for the first time. You dont have to have the penis deep into your moth for a good time, the head part is the most sensitive part anyway.

thats why its better to get oral sex from a girl...

It feels great to have the whole landscape explored, especially early on. My thighs & where they join my body are very sensitive so using his teeth in those areas is exquisite. Then tugging on the labial lips, sucking them into his mouth & shaking his head back & forth. Think of the clit as a Jolly Rancher its a great way to bring incredible pleasure.The cherry on top is hearing his pleasure. I love to hear his voice and the sounds of pleasure coming from his throat send joy through my bones.

Did you ever get the answer for that?

no man . take it easy . you don't have to tongue-fuck it hard . you'll get used to it i guess...

Pt. 2. As a matter of fact, I'm more into having vaginal sex after I've had a big oral orgasm. Also, I had a b.f. once who said things like "your pussy is perfect", "your pussy is so sweet", stuff like that, and it really got to me in a good way. Soft tongue feels great everywhere, and licking from the bottom to the top, not just focusing on the clit. Also love it when guys take my lips into their mouths too, and slowly pull them out.

Pt. 1. For me, it's great when I know the guy is into and loves to eat pussy. It's bad when I feel like they're just counting the minutes until they can quit and get inside me, or when they stop before I finish (don't worry, I'll still want to have vaginal sex, even if I have a big ol' orgasm from oral).

Know your limit, don't exceed it. Just the head in your mouth is fine if you use your hands, thats great.

You can have oral sex with yourself if your a guy, well some guys, takes flexibility.