Hollywood movies are FULL of extreme romance. Really complex dialogue just to say 'I Love You' in a whole new way...

i'm from germany, so i'm sorry for not speaking english perfectly.well, i think there is one big problem concerning men not being so romantic. society does not want men to be romantic. take a look at television. you've got those hip hop video clips or those james-bond-like heros and porn everywhere. all those guys play with girls and all the men who watch that crap try to be like them. i hope you could understand what i was trying to say. ciao

Yeah, I love sex as much as an average guy. But mainstream porn is SO FAR from reality I have zero interest in it.To say I have to like porn to like sex is the ridiculous statement.

some women make no sense. They SAY they love sex as much as a male, but they hate "normal" porn. Ridiculous.

Really enjoyed this and learned some things, and am a 50-yr-old man. Thanks for your videos!

@kicesie hmm im a man who has more romantic fantasies as other men. but i have the problem that mine is too romantic for the girls.

My hubby is great at it. But I hear from women all the time who can't find a guy that tries one freakin bit toward fulfilling their fantasies...

I gotta say though .. many men try to be very romantic for the enjoyment or fantasy for women ... I know heaps of guys that do it ... maybe you just don't know the right guys for the fantasy yet :P

The thing is this: in a porn video, the "desired action" is self-evident and clear within seconds. Reading a romantic novel to find out how one is supposed to behave as a man takes hours. Maybe the lady should point out the relevant pages in the book, but I guess it's not as simple as that. Telling your guy in your own words may be the best option anyway, though I'm afraid that many guys won't get it or even laugh about what you tell them. In latter case, you may not be with the right guy...

I think soaps are another form, yes!

Please see my responses to 'sleepstudent101'. You've TOTALLY missed the point of the video. Totally!

Again, my point is that I think the characters are already in all men.... they simply need to bring it out a little more. Protectiveness is a turn-on for some. Confidence is definitely a turn-on for most... A sense of duty and pride for who they are and what they do is important.And being insanely, insatiably in love with someone goes a long way toward fulfilling our ultimate fantasies.

I agree with you, girls do have porn in literature form, but what about soap operas? My friend's aunt watches them, and I wanted to know what they represent.

Well stuff woman do is real. They can dance and wear the hot little whatevers...I can't fight off werewolves...I'm not a vampire sex god. Real life is a bitch huh?

that makes more sense. But we probably both agree that a stable relationship forms when two people love the natural parts of each others' personalities. As a moral nihilist I think it's neither a "good" nor "bad" idea for men to study romance novels. I'd honestly give a try if I weren't taking Organic chem.Yet with the common knowledge that men hardly read those, I assume it'd be unnatural for men to change try it and change their normal behaviors.

yeah, that's not what I meant at all. I never said a man should role play the characters in the novels... instead he should look to the novels to see what the underlying characteristics of the male hero are and he'd be shocked at how easy and obtainable that is!

Men don't cock gag girls and none of my male friends do anal like in all of the pornos. We don't do ass to mouth, either.So if men don't make women go to fantasy extremes, why should men? Should we dress like tools in New Moon or die our hair blonde and grow it out long and wavy? Most of my female friends make fun of those douches. Sorry to come off so strong but you imply all guys don't try and its a slap in the face to all my hard work in pleasing my current girlfriend.

its all from both glz n boyz.you know well glz are always way looking good for boys and same as boys to glz. cuz evry one findz someone fit to them. and when they prepare like they make we guyz to fantaz. along that guys also do the same so the connections from both.and it goes on ..if i am wrong then there must be a reason why am i, i will accept the feedback thanks

I agree it appears to be an over-the-top, no-exception statement. Sex and sexuality is that cut and dry. A legal document and far-too-often meaningless promise doesn't define whether sex will or will not emotionally fulfill someone.Doesn't mean I don't believe the best sex ever is with the person you're spending the rest of your life with. But I recognize that as my opinion... and not an ultimate fact that will apply to everyone.

guys do look at porn and if they read a romance novel they just go straight to the sex part.yes, 'most' and not all girls do work harder than guys in a relationship.before a relationship, during the courting stage.......girls do work harder to get the man they want and likewise the guy will work hard to get the girl he wants.....it is all in the matter of what the individual wants and when the right one presents him/herself, they sometimes unfortunately not interested.